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Evidence-based reporting and reflection on fertility, adoption, surrogacy, LGBTQ+ family building, and the financial reality of growing a family.
September 5, 2026 · 40 stories · 6 topics
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You Don't Have to Be Loud to Change Fertility Policy
Most advocacy isn't a microphone. It's an email, a form, a sentence you finally say out loud.
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Advocacy Doesn't End in April: How to Show Up Right Now
Infertility advocacy is having a moment. Here's what's actually on the table — and how your voice fits in, even if you've never done this before.
When Infertility Becomes the Long Haul
Most fertility coverage is written for first-timers. Here's what nobody tells you about year three, year five, year eight.
When the Algorithm Reads Your Chart Before Your Doctor Does
AI is quietly entering fertility clinics and benefits portals. Here's where it genuinely helps you — and where it can't replace a human who knows your history.
Advocacy Works, But It's Exhausting. Here's How to Stay In It.
The Minnesota mandate failed. The movement didn't. What to do with the grief, and how to keep showing up without burning out.
When Your Kid Has to Explain Your Family at School
Your child shouldn't have to defend your family at recess. Here's how LGBTQ+ parents are preparing kids — without handing them fear.
Before You Click 'Renew' on Your Health Plan, Read This
Open enrollment is your one shot to shape what your next cycle costs. Here's how to actually evaluate fertility benefits before you sign.
The Quiet Months When Your Fertility Coverage Gets Decided
Your company's benefits get locked in months before open enrollment. Here's how to make your case while the decision is still open.
When Your State Votes No on Fertility Coverage
Minnesota's fertility insurance mandate failed in May. If you've been waiting on your state to make IVF affordable, here's what to do now.
How to Afford IVF: The Full Financial Playbook
The average IVF cycle costs more than most people have saved, and nobody hands you the full list of ways to pay for it. Here is every lever, in the order to pull them, with honest math on what financing actually costs you.
From Patient to Advocate: A Practical Guide to Fertility Policy Action
A step-by-step playbook for turning your fertility experience into political pressure — even if you've never contacted a legislator before.
Infertility and Mental Health: What Nobody Prepares You For
The injections are rarely the hardest part. A gentle, concrete look at what infertility does to your mind, your marriage, and your calendar, and how to find help that fits.
Why Telling Your Infertility Story Is a Political Act
Your story isn't just catharsis. It's the raw material lawmakers actually respond to — and the reason coverage either passes or dies.
How to Fundraise for IVF When Asking Feels Impossible
Most crowdfunding advice is written for strangers who are never coming. Here is what actually raises money for fertility treatment, and how to ask without losing yourself in the process.
Your Fertility Benefits Probably Don't Cover What You Think
Open enrollment is the one window where your fertility coverage can change. Here's how to read it, question it, and push for more.
How to Choose a Fertility Clinic Without Being Misled
The number on a clinic's homepage is usually the least useful thing on it. Here's how to read success-rate data honestly, what to ask at a first consult, and which cost disclosures separate a real quote from a sales pitch.
Lacey and Jake Felder Are Ready to Become Parents
A heart transplant at 18 months. A kidney from her brother. A career spent advocating for organ donation. Now Lacey and Jake Felder are hoping to become parents through surrogacy.
Your Story Is Policy Evidence: A Practical Guide to Fertility Advocacy
Minnesota's mandate just died. Federal employer rules are shifting. Here's how to actually use your voice — without being a policy expert.
LGBTQ+ Family Building: Every Option, What It Costs, and the Legal Step People Skip
Most guides list methods as if the question were a menu. The real questions are who carries, whose gametes, what you can afford, and what your state requires before you are both legally the parent. Here is all four, honestly.
Your Story Is the Lobbying Tool Lawmakers Actually Remember
Policy doesn't move on data alone. Here's how to turn what you've lived through into pressure that actually reaches lawmakers.
Ten Years of Fertility Benefits at Work, and Why Your Coverage Still Isn't Guaranteed
Employer fertility coverage went from niche to expected in ten years. Here's what that means for you — and where the cracks still are.
Turning Your Story Into State Policy: A Practical Advocacy Guide
A step-by-step guide to advocating for fertility coverage in your state — what to say, who to say it to, and why your story matters now.
Your Fertility Benefits Could Shift. Here's What to Watch.
A new federal proposal could reshape how employers offer fertility benefits. Here's what it means if your IVF or IUI plan runs through work.
The Mental Load of Fertility Treatment Nobody Budgets For
Fertility benefits have expanded. The mental health support to survive them hasn't. Here's what to ask for — and why it matters.
Your Fertility Benefit Covers the Shots. What About the Rest of You?
Your employer covers IVF but not the therapist who could help you survive it. Here's why — and what to ask HR to change.
Minnesota's Fertility Mandate Just Failed. Now What?
Minnesota's fertility insurance bill died in the Senate. If you're paying out of pocket, here's what that loss means — and what to do next.
Rob and Liz: Bridging Oceans for a Baby
Rob and Liz have been dreaming of a child since 2019. Through diagnosis, recovery, and heartbreak, they are pursuing fertility care in Portugal, and asking their village to walk with them.
How to Turn Your Fertility Story Into Real Policy Change
Your story is the most underused tool in fertility advocacy. Here's how to use it — and why right now matters.
Minnesota Said No to Fertility Coverage. Now What?
Minnesota's fertility insurance mandate just failed. Here's what it means if you live in a state where IVF still comes out of your savings account.
What to Ask HR About Fertility Benefits This Year
Open enrollment isn't just paperwork. It's your shot to push for fertility coverage that actually works. Here's how.
Your Fertility Benefit Probably Forgot the Hardest Part
Fertility coverage has expanded. Mental health support hasn't. Here's how to name the gap — and what to ask your employer for.
What to Actually Look for in Your Fertility Benefits This Open Enrollment
Before you accept your company's fertility coverage as-is, here's how to find the gaps that matter most.
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Grants & Financing
12 storiesGrants, loans, insurance, and employer benefits.
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Coming soonThe Gift of Parenthood Podcast — short conversations with our community on fertility, adoption, surrogacy, and family building.
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